Vasectomized Men
I know what you are thinking, but perish the thought. This is
not a male bashing article. It is one which I hope will help women
understand the extremely shabby treatment they often get from divorced
men and some of these net Nazis who troll from forum to forum spewing as
much hatred at women as they do Jews. I seek to understand their
reasoning instead of getting angry about it, as we so often do. Since
men do not analyze "feelings" the way we women do, we should make an attempt
to understand what they are really saying when they are insulting us.
Sometimes "Get back into the kitchen, little woman" means "keep your distance,
I have been burned before."
We have all become familiar with the now-common term "feminized" to
describe unmasculine qualities in men. It occurred to me that many
of those who are not "feminized" are "vasectomized."
In other words, sterile. I am not solely referring to getting it
"snipped." I use the term vasectomized to describe emotionally sterile
men who hide behind the mask of machismo to shield themselves from any
further love scars.
Let me provide you with an example of one vasectomized man:
I will call him "Ron." Ron is a neighbor of mine, but is not available
for love, even though he is 45 and still quite handsome and virile.
In his early 30's, Ron got married and was happy for about 12 years.
The couple had a son and over the 12 years of their marriage, jointly made
payments on some lakefront property. Each day after his 10 hour shift
(pouring concrete) and every weekend, Ron was on the property building
their dream house by the lake. One day when Ron came home to their
town apartment and pulled into the parking lot, he witnessed his wife having
sex with another man on the hood of his classic Mustang. It seems
that while Ron was building their future home, his wife was feeling "neglected"
because he didn't spend enough time with his family. Needless to say, he
divorced her. In California we have no-fault divorce, so the wife
was not penalized for breaking up the marriage with her infidelity.
She ended up with 100% of the property, the kid and even the horses. Ron
moved into a motor home and was told he had to give her half his income
(alimony, child support) and would not be permitted custody of his son
until he lived in a house. Two years later, he got custody of his
son. But the damage was done and he was "vasectomized" both physically
and emotionally. He is no longer available for a relationship with
a woman, thanks to his ex wife.
On the Fertility Front...
This morning, I got to thinking about how few men in their 30's and
40's are actually marriageable. This is very bad news for those unattached-but-hopeful
"my clock is ticking" women in their 30's. Those of us who never married
in our 20's do not have a healthy pool of mates to select from. Most
of the available men between the ages of 35-50 have been through divorces
and have had vasectomies. If they are not emotionally incapable of
a healthy love relationship, they have taken themselves out of the gene
pool with one snip.
So if we want to be fair, we need to acknowledge that men as well as
women choose to control how many children they have. Birth control
goes both ways, but more often men make it permanent. One recent article
I read viciously attacked women for not having ten babies each, as if there
is this huge pool of young virile men willing to support a wife and even
one child, let alone ten! The average man's worst nightmare is getting
his girlfriend pregnant. And the divorced man's worst nightmare is
having to pay more alimony. So he gets divorced somewhere between
35-50 (for various reasons), and then seeks out women in their childbearing
years for casual relationships! He really acts dumbfounded when you
explain you cannot date a man who doesn't want children or one who hates
women. And they do often hate women because they have been demasculated
by society and castrated by the ex wife, all of which culminates in self-vasectomization.
YOU, you cute 30 something year old, naive, idealistic, romantic thing--will
be the one to PAY for this.
The era of the vengeful male has just begun. Will we counter it
with White wisdom or exacerbate it with Jew psychology? You decide.
ANGRY WHITE FEMALE
8-01-02
